Making the Most of Your Sibling Newborn Session
As a newborn photographer based in Burbank, I understand how important it is for moms to capture the family photos they’ve been dreaming of—especially those tender first moments between their eldest and newest babies. For many families, the children are only two to three years apart, which can make the idea of a sibling newborn session feel overwhelming. A busy toddler and a fragile newborn? It’s no wonder many parents either skip it altogether or search for a photographer experienced in working with this dynamic age gap.
But these sessions can absolutely be successful and even joyful—with the right approach. After photographing many sibling newborn sessions with younger children, I’ve found these tips make a world of difference.
1. Let Their Curiosity Lead
When introducing your oldest to the newest member of the family during the session, I like to keep things as natural as possible. Instead of jumping into posing, I observe what they naturally want to do. Often, they don’t fully understand instructions just yet, but their curiosity can work in our favor. When they approach the baby on their own terms, I’m ready to capture those sweet, spontaneous moments. I might gently encourage a kiss or a snuggle, but never force it.
And remember—don’t scold or pressure them if they don’t cooperate right away. New environments are full of distractions, and sometimes a light switch or new toy is more fascinating than the baby. That’s okay. We work with their energy, not against it.
2. Bring Comfort From Home
One of my biggest tips for a smooth sibling newborn session is to bring a familiar comfort item. Whether it’s their favorite toy, a beloved movie playing quietly in the background, or a go-to snack, these little pieces of home help them feel safe in a new space—whether it’s your home or my studio. I’m also totally fine with a small, fun “bribe” (hello, fruit snacks or a sticker!) in exchange for cooperation. It can work wonders.
3. Don’t Be Afraid to Try Again
Sometimes, kids just aren’t in the mood—and that’s okay. We’re not here to create stress or leave them with a negative experience. If your child is having a tough time, we can always try again another day. A good night’s sleep, a full belly, and the comfort of knowing what to expect can make a huge difference the second time around.
Here’s an image of a little one I had to rephotograph after her first session didn’t go as planned. Her baby sister was calm, but she needed more time. I’m so glad we gave her that grace—because now her mom has the photo she always dreamed of, hanging proudly in her home as she watches her girls grow together.
4. Get Them Involved
Here’s one more helpful trick: give your oldest a “big sibling job.” Maybe it’s holding the baby’s swaddle, helping pick a headband, or choosing a song to play. Giving them a small responsibility helps them feel important and involved in the process. It’s empowering—and it shifts the focus from “sit here and smile” to “you’re helping with something really special.”
A sibling newborn session is more than just a photo op—it’s a moment to capture the beginning of a lifelong bond. And with a little patience, a bit of play, and a whole lot of love, we’ll create something truly timeless.
Ready to book your sibling newborn session?
Let’s create images that celebrate the sweet (and sometimes wild) beginnings of siblinghood. Whether you’re dreaming of peaceful snuggles or real-life chaos turned into art, I’m here to help you preserve this moment beautifully. Newborn sessions are best within the first month of baby’s arrival. If you’re a mom in the Los Angeles or DC, Maryland, and Northern VA area, interested in me photographing this special moment for you and your family, contact me here and let’s start planning your session today!
